10條不拍馬屁 如何取悅自己的上司? （中英對照）

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10條不拍馬屁 如何取悅自己的上司?

Everyone knows how important it is to have a good relationship with their boss, but not everyone knows how to go about doing this. Here are ten simple ways to make your boss like you without sucking up.

每個人都知道與上司保持良好關(guān)系有多么重要，但并不是每個人都清楚該如何做到。以下十條簡單的方法會讓你的上司喜歡你，并且不會讓你背上拍馬屁的惡名。


1. Never gossip about your boss.

If you have anything negative to say about your boss, don’t talk about it with your coworkers.Instead, wait for work to end and talk about it with your noncoworker friends. It is very likely that anything negative you say about your boss will eventually reach his/her ears. This can make an enemy in a higher position than you, which can severely hurt your career and reputation.

1. 永遠不要說你上司的閑話。

如果你對你的上司有負面看法，不要把它告訴你的同事。而是應(yīng)等到下班后同與你沒有工作來往的朋友交流此事。很有可能你發(fā)表的所有關(guān)于你上司的負面意見最終都會傳到其耳朵里。這會給你樹一個職位比你高的敵人，從而嚴重損害你的事業(yè)和名譽。

2. Get to know your boss.

If your office culture allows casual conversation during the day, make an effort to stop by your boss’s office and ask how he/sheis doing. Ask about their weekend,families, hobbies, or whatever else they might be interested in talking about. Your boss will probably have family photos, vacation photos, and other important items posted on their walls, which makes starting a conversation easier.After learning a little about them and their lives, you can have more conversations with them in the future. Learning more about your boss is something that is enjoyable and can benefit you greatly.

2. 多了解你的上司。

如果你的辦公室文化允許日間較為隨意地交談，尋找機會拜訪你上司的辦公室，并問問他/ 她的近況如何。聊聊他們的周末、家庭、業(yè)余愛好或其他任何他們可能感興趣聊的事兒。你的上司也許把一些家庭照片、假日照片和其他重要時刻的紀念照掛在墻上，從這些話題入手會讓交談變得更容易。在初步了解他們和他們的生活后，在將來你可以與他們更多地交談。加深對你上司的了解是一件令人愉悅的事，并能給你帶來極大好處。

3. Ask for advice.

If you have a work or career related problem, ask your boss for advice. Asking for advice will show your boss that you trust him/her and you value his/her opinion.If you act on the advice you get,follow up and tell your boss what happened (assuming the advice had a positive effect). Validating your boss’s advice will make him/her feel better and will strengthen the relationship you share.

3. 向上司尋求建議。

如果你有關(guān)于工作或事業(yè)的疑問，向你的上司尋求建議。這會向你的上司表明你信任他/ 她，并且重視他/ 她的意見。如果你按照你得到的建議行動，那就貫徹到底，并向上司匯報進度（假定建議起到了積極的效果）。驗證上司的建議有效會使他/ 她感覺更好，并加深與你之間的關(guān)系。

4. Don’t slack off.

Make sure you stay focused at work and don’t slack off. Limit the time you spend chatting with coworkers, snacking, and surfing the internet. Try to keep work in front of you at all times. If your boss gets the impression that you slack off too much, he or she will lose trust on you and think you’re working less than you might be.Also, when you are not as involved in your work, time will move more slowly, and your day will just seem longer. So stay on task and really wrap yourself in your work.

4. 不要懈怠工作。

確保你持續(xù)將精力集中到工作上并且沒有懈怠�？刂谱∧闩c同事閑聊、吃零食和網(wǎng)上沖浪的時間。盡量時刻把工作擺在首位。如果你的上司注意到你松懈了太久，他/ 她會失去對你的信任并認為你比應(yīng)該在工作上付出的努力要少。同樣的，如果你對工作不夠投入，時間會過得更慢，你的工作時間看起來會更漫長。所以專心干活，使自己沉浸于工作中吧。

5. Maintain a positive attitude.

Maintaining a positive attitude will help boost the moral of your boss and coworkers. Talk about the things that are going well on a project and be optimistic about overcoming the problems you face. No one enjoys someone who worries and complains about everything.

5. 保持積極態(tài)度。

保持積極態(tài)度能夠激勵你的上司和同事們的士氣。談?wù)勔粋�項目中進展順利的部分，并對克服你所面臨的難題持樂觀看法。沒有人會喜歡總是憂心忡忡并抱怨每件事的人。

6. Don’t be a yes man.

Being a yes man will make your coworkers and boss despise you.A yes man often comes off as insincere and sleazy. Also a boss will never treat a yes man as an equal, which greatly limits future advancement. Being a yes man is bad, but that doesn’t mean you should constantly disagree with your boss. Be professional and have the confidence and smarts to agree and disagree with your boss when the time is right.　

6. 不要唯唯諾諾。

對每件事都一味附和會讓你的同事們和上司瞧不起你。那樣的人通常代表著不誠懇與不體面。同樣的，上司絕不會像信任其他人一樣信任這種人，這會極大限制你將來的發(fā)展。做一個唯唯諾諾的人非常不好，但這不意味著你應(yīng)時常與你的上司唱反調(diào)。如果時機合適，用專業(yè)的態(tài)度、自信并機敏地贊同或反對上司的意見。

7. Keep it professional.

It doesn’t hurt to spice things up every now and then at the office, but for the most part, keep it professional. Don’t plaster your walls with comics or internet jokes and make sure your attire is always appropriate. Don’t be too casual at work because work is supposed to be taken seriously. If you take a more casual approach to work, your boss may think you are uninterested in your career.

7. 保持職業(yè)性。

偶爾讓辦公室變得有趣一些并無妨，但在大多數(shù)時間里，應(yīng)保持職業(yè)性。不要在你的墻上貼滿連環(huán)畫或網(wǎng)絡(luò)笑話，并確保你的著裝得體。在工作中不能太過于隨意，因為工作都應(yīng)當(dāng)被認真對待。如果你使用太過隨意的方法來完成工作，你的上司可能認為你并不關(guān)心你的事業(yè)。

8. Produce results.

Make sure you can produc results on the projects you are working on. If you ever get stuck,ask around for help until you are able to complete a given task.This will give you a reputation of being a hard worker and will give you a chance to interact with your coworkers in a positive way.

8. 創(chuàng)造業(yè)績。

確保你努力工作的所有項目都能創(chuàng)造一定業(yè)績。如果你遇到難題卡住了，向周圍人請求幫助，直到你能夠完成既定工作。這能使你獲得勤奮的美譽，并給你機會以積極的方式與同事們接觸。

9. Be consistent.

Get to a level where you have a good relationship with your boss and stay on course. Be consistent in everything you do to continue building the relationship you have with your boss. If you fizzle out or show signs of change, your boss will likely be turned off by that.

9. 做事應(yīng)持之以恒。

與你的上司保持良好關(guān)系并維持下去。對待你做的每一件事都應(yīng)持之以恒并持續(xù)構(gòu)建你與上司現(xiàn)有的關(guān)系。如果你突然失去熱情或作出改變，你的上司可能會因此討厭你。

10. Have good relationships with your coworkers.

Having strong relationships with your coworkers can make a huge difference in how your boss perceives you. If your coworkerslove and respect you, it is likely your boss will too. Having strong relationships with your coworkers will also make it easier for you to find help, and delegate tasks. Your boss will see this and give you more responsibility which can lead to future career advancements.

10. 與你的同事們保持良好關(guān)系。

與你的同事們保持穩(wěn)固關(guān)系能夠使上司對你的看法產(chǎn)生極大不同。如果你的同事們都喜歡并尊重你，你的上司很可能也會如此。與同事們保持穩(wěn)固關(guān)系也能使你更易尋求到幫助并托付任務(wù)。你的上司會注意到這點并交付給你更多責(zé)任，這能給你將來的職業(yè)道路帶來長遠發(fā)展。

Having a good relationship with your boss can help you hava more successful career and life.There are many more ways to improve the relationship between you and your boss. We encourage you to try as many as you can, just don’t suck up.

與你的上司保持良好關(guān)系能幫助你在事業(yè)和生活上取得更多成功。加深你與上司之間的關(guān)系有很多方法。我們鼓勵你盡量多地嘗試，但牢記一點—不要拍馬屁。


原文來自文國網(wǎng)，希望對大家提高英語水平和了解職場生活有幫助。

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很中肯啊

These are what I should learn.

zrl1984 發(fā)表于 2012-6-18 11:27
These are what I should learn.

These are what all of us should learn.

好帖，標記一下。

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挺好的，不錯

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Everyone knows how important it is to have a good relationship with their boss, but not everyone knows how to go about doing this. Here are ten simple ways to make your boss like you without sucking up.
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